I'm sick of blogger. Have created http://happidipity.wordpress.com/
Haven't moved in officially. It will be listed as my public page. Any suggestions for what to add?
Thursday, January 31, 2008
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Something a woman should have
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a youth she's content to leave behind....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a feeling of control over her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to fall in love without losing herself..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .
whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table .. .
or a charming Inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a youth she's content to leave behind....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a feeling of control over her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to fall in love without losing herself..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .
whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table .. .
or a charming Inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...
Auspicious Beginnings
Best thing about CNY: Getting money for doing nothing (HongBao), Eating and Long weekend.Everyone is counting down to Chinese New Year because it's going to be long weekend. For me, it's almost 4.5 days off because I'm given half day off on CNY Eve.
Chanel was telling me she likes CNY because get to eat good food, wear new nice clothes and collect money. I used to think the same way, but honestly hongbaos seem to shrink in size year after year and I don't dare to eat too much junk food because it's going to be difficult to lose weight (especially at my age >.<) Plus visiting my relatives' place can be quite boring because there's nothing to do except watch TV and eat. Nothing much in common with them and they don't gamble too.
I used to love CNY when I was a kid. Every CNY is just an excuse to meet my cousins and play games with them. I used to 'lead' the pack of kids to play something silly like hide & seek or some team games. That was fun and I actually feel close to my cousins. I was telling my sister, even when we get married in the future, we must still remain closely knitted and our kids must meet up often. The tradition will start from my generation.
Next week on Wed, the streets will once again be emptied, shops closed, Chinatown bustling with activity on New Year Eve, roads filled with newbie drivers, many in red clothes on Thu and only fast food joints will be open for the 1st 2 days of new year.
Sunday, January 27, 2008
All successful people are shameless
Above may be a sweeping statement, but studying the patterns of certain successful persons, i draw this conclusion.
1) they're not afraid of swallowing their pride, if necessary
2) giving up is not an option in their dictionary
3) they try and try until they achieve desired results
4) they are proud to share their failures, because it means they have failed enough times to warrant a success. (*I read about Barbie Hsu aka Da S interview on Marie Clarie China and she said the reason why she is known as Mei Rong Da Wang / Queen of Beauty is because she has failed enough times, wasted enough money, had enough trials on different products to know what is good.)
5) they are out to show off their success. just because they can (doesn't mean they are not humble, but they are not shy about showing off)
1) they're not afraid of swallowing their pride, if necessary
2) giving up is not an option in their dictionary
3) they try and try until they achieve desired results
4) they are proud to share their failures, because it means they have failed enough times to warrant a success. (*I read about Barbie Hsu aka Da S interview on Marie Clarie China and she said the reason why she is known as Mei Rong Da Wang / Queen of Beauty is because she has failed enough times, wasted enough money, had enough trials on different products to know what is good.)
5) they are out to show off their success. just because they can (doesn't mean they are not humble, but they are not shy about showing off)
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Little bundle of joy
Rachelle Wong is born on 21 January 2008, an Aquarius! And I'm officially a godma. haha
She is one blessed baby and Mummy Janet is very strong! Take care of yourself Mummy (:
She is one blessed baby and Mummy Janet is very strong! Take care of yourself Mummy (:
Friday, January 18, 2008
The irony of things
I just found out a friend of mine wants to open a beauty parlor and taking up a makeup course now. No, she isn't learning at my academy.
I'm not pissed. Just saddened by the fact, she did not think of me.
But no worries. Hana will be on the world map.
*****
almost 2 years ago, i gave up a relationship of 3 years. i haven look back since. No one fault it was, and i'm happy that he is doing so well for himself now.
i finally found peace within myself.
I'm not pissed. Just saddened by the fact, she did not think of me.
But no worries. Hana will be on the world map.
*****
almost 2 years ago, i gave up a relationship of 3 years. i haven look back since. No one fault it was, and i'm happy that he is doing so well for himself now.
i finally found peace within myself.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Iryu
aka Team Medical Dragon.
I just finished both series of this show and it's fantastic! Love the ost, the cast, the plot and not to mention the extremely cute Sakaguchi Kenji who is Asada Ryutaro (not much acting, just a straight face).
The 1st series was about this extremely talented heart surgeon, Ryutaro, who was asked to help out with an extremely difficult operation - Batista. In order to perform this operation, he needed the best operation team. So he solicted a talented nurse, a naive intern doctor, a stubborn doctor who specialise in internal medicine, a trouble making anesthesian and together they helped many patients who were 'abandoned' by the hospital (the hospital rejects patients who are dying because they see no pt in saving them and it lowers their mortality rate).
2nd series followed the same style as the 1st, even the OST was similar as the 1st. New characters were added because hospitals are now facing restructuring and patients who are dying and can't pay are left to die. Ryutaro who is transferred to a new hospital have to put together a new team and as usual it was a challenging uphill task.
The surgical procedures are pretty gory for me, but I learnt much medical terms too. I guess in reality, things never go so smoothly in a surgery. But I'm glad no one die on the operating table for this show, because I'm sick of shows with unhappy endings.
The show's underlying meaning is teamwork. In the past, the only time I find myself working in a team, except school days when we have to do project. Even at work, though I belonged to some dept, I did not consider myself working in a team. Instead we were more like individuals tasked with different activities and we just cared about completing our own segment. In some ways it feels that the working world is a selfish place where people fight for own 'survival' even if it means the demise of another. It's an awful feeling and a vicious cycle.
It's easier to find a group of friends to have fun, than to gather a team to work towards a common goal. Because play is always better than work and we are a lazy bunch. I may not be rich, but I have a much precious asset and that's my team of Hana peers who strive for the same things I do.
Like Ryutaro, I want to put together my team of talents. Target 37 people.
Monday, January 14, 2008
It's incredible
that I've blog so little since the year started. hee.
My thoughts are fragmented, the last week was well spent. In bits and pieces:
I'm in love. With my ipod touch! Who needs a boyfriend when you can watch eye candy like 'Asada Ryutaro' in Iryu on the go!
I'm thinking more of the number - 23. It's scary that time passes this fast. What have I achieved at 23? Do I have the ability to be independent?
Assistant instructor is a learning journey. I am so honoured to be assisting in Caren's class. I want to be an instructor soon and conduct classes myself.
We are who we mixed with. I'm happier doing more that contribute to my future, than wasting my time waiting or feeling bored with life
I've been drinking abit too much, as I got drunk on Fri night again. But vitamin B helps!
Moments of weakness and loneliness are still there. But I'm too busy to waste time thinking about those.
Gimme more work!!!
My thoughts are fragmented, the last week was well spent. In bits and pieces:
I'm in love. With my ipod touch! Who needs a boyfriend when you can watch eye candy like 'Asada Ryutaro' in Iryu on the go!
I'm thinking more of the number - 23. It's scary that time passes this fast. What have I achieved at 23? Do I have the ability to be independent?
Assistant instructor is a learning journey. I am so honoured to be assisting in Caren's class. I want to be an instructor soon and conduct classes myself.
We are who we mixed with. I'm happier doing more that contribute to my future, than wasting my time waiting or feeling bored with life
I've been drinking abit too much, as I got drunk on Fri night again. But vitamin B helps!
Moments of weakness and loneliness are still there. But I'm too busy to waste time thinking about those.
Gimme more work!!!
Thursday, January 03, 2008
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
Review & Renew
2007 - a year of new beginnings, disappointment, learning & preparation
In a pretty big nutshell, here's my report card for 2007:
Beginning of Hana-School of Skincare & Cosmetic Arts. We started out in Chinatown Plaza, and we had our opening, classes, workshops, makeup competition. Almost everyone spent their birthdays there too. Our first OPP, NDO, nutrition class and mrb were held there. The group became regulars at frog leg claypot store and zhi char store opposite our classroom.
The group had a trying year. We spent almost everyday together. 1, 3, 5 at Amstar. 2, 4, 6 at Hana. The group dynamics changed dramatically over the past year. You could say we grew up, but in separate directions. Some left, new blood came and go. Claudia was unable to join us for the most part of last year, but my, was she energized when she returned to the group. Her makeup skills, her presentation were improving by leaps and bounds and most importantly, I saw her take ownership of Hana, picking up key roles in Hana. And there was Oliver who in turn brought about the 'birth' of Sarah. Guess one could tell the similarities between the 2. Both extremely popular (esp among the opposite gender), charismatic, outgoing, fun-loving, enthusiastic at times and definitely go-getter. Really want to see both of them more active in the group this year.
And there were many many weddings. First was Vernon's wedding, then Rion's and Janet's, then Jenny's. I am happy to be there to be part of their special day. I'm looking forward to Gordon & Thanet's and Zen's wedding this year too! Can't wait :)
Work wise was quite eventful too. Changed 3 workplaces in a span of 3 mths. Left Meritus in Jan, joined Raffles The Plaza (now known as Fairmont) for 2 mths, before joining my current company - Pegasus Solutions in Apr. Finally got a pay raise. Finally like my workplace and colleagues. Finally beginning to enjoy my work. It's become quite a mouthful to explain my job, and job scope. But I do very much enjoy the fixed hours and proxmity to my home (however travelling to town is such a chore!)
Many has remarked that I've changed alot in terms of looks over the past year. Thanks for all the times for those who said I looked good/pretty etc. It's been a confidence booster for a girl who used to look really geeky in sec sch and poly (complete with specs, non-existent fringe, bad sense of fashion). I will strive to live up to my reputation as beauty instructor in 2008!
Most importantly I've helped even more people to become prettier and more confident over the past year. For all the makeup I have done during pageants, bashes, D&D, fashion shows, I've gradually becoming better at what I do and I love the smile on each person's face after I'm done. I'm still keen to do free facials and makeup for close friends, so book me soon before I start getting too busy!
Although I do lament the fact I am too single, few men has left a lasting impression over the past year. Strange men who walked in and out suddenly of my life are aplenty (names I shall not named, but there're seriously alot) Still no sight of prince charming, whom I am convinced is very lost somewhere. But I'm not lonely (for most part of the time). I'm enjoying singlehood with my friends, going partying, spending more time with sister and girlfriends. Like Christine's new year resolution, it's time to be 'happily single'. Chasing our dreams give us a high, more than chasing after a worthless man.
Regretfully, I did not make major breakthrough. Still very far from hitting my mark, because I did not treat my future seriously. Alot of distractions, disappointment and unhappiness, but those are not excuses. Dreams not fulfilled, will just remains as dreams. And time is running out. I'm already going to be 23 this year. Ill-equipped with just a diploma, I know my future is doomed if I don't get a degree, or make it big in Amway. I admit that I've been in my comfort zone, afraid of doing new things, taking up new responsibilities. I still complain alot, and my mood swings alot, and my consistency is way off mark. I would like to think my dreams are specific. but honestly there're not. Neither are my plans.
So the new year resolution is to face my challenges and overcome my fears. Be it in Hana, work, among my friends, money, love or family. It's enough of knowing what needs to be done but not doing it. I want to achieve my goals this year. I want to make it this year and I know I will.
In a pretty big nutshell, here's my report card for 2007:
Beginning of Hana-School of Skincare & Cosmetic Arts. We started out in Chinatown Plaza, and we had our opening, classes, workshops, makeup competition. Almost everyone spent their birthdays there too. Our first OPP, NDO, nutrition class and mrb were held there. The group became regulars at frog leg claypot store and zhi char store opposite our classroom.
The group had a trying year. We spent almost everyday together. 1, 3, 5 at Amstar. 2, 4, 6 at Hana. The group dynamics changed dramatically over the past year. You could say we grew up, but in separate directions. Some left, new blood came and go. Claudia was unable to join us for the most part of last year, but my, was she energized when she returned to the group. Her makeup skills, her presentation were improving by leaps and bounds and most importantly, I saw her take ownership of Hana, picking up key roles in Hana. And there was Oliver who in turn brought about the 'birth' of Sarah. Guess one could tell the similarities between the 2. Both extremely popular (esp among the opposite gender), charismatic, outgoing, fun-loving, enthusiastic at times and definitely go-getter. Really want to see both of them more active in the group this year.
And there were many many weddings. First was Vernon's wedding, then Rion's and Janet's, then Jenny's. I am happy to be there to be part of their special day. I'm looking forward to Gordon & Thanet's and Zen's wedding this year too! Can't wait :)
Work wise was quite eventful too. Changed 3 workplaces in a span of 3 mths. Left Meritus in Jan, joined Raffles The Plaza (now known as Fairmont) for 2 mths, before joining my current company - Pegasus Solutions in Apr. Finally got a pay raise. Finally like my workplace and colleagues. Finally beginning to enjoy my work. It's become quite a mouthful to explain my job, and job scope. But I do very much enjoy the fixed hours and proxmity to my home (however travelling to town is such a chore!)
Many has remarked that I've changed alot in terms of looks over the past year. Thanks for all the times for those who said I looked good/pretty etc. It's been a confidence booster for a girl who used to look really geeky in sec sch and poly (complete with specs, non-existent fringe, bad sense of fashion). I will strive to live up to my reputation as beauty instructor in 2008!
Most importantly I've helped even more people to become prettier and more confident over the past year. For all the makeup I have done during pageants, bashes, D&D, fashion shows, I've gradually becoming better at what I do and I love the smile on each person's face after I'm done. I'm still keen to do free facials and makeup for close friends, so book me soon before I start getting too busy!
Although I do lament the fact I am too single, few men has left a lasting impression over the past year. Strange men who walked in and out suddenly of my life are aplenty (names I shall not named, but there're seriously alot) Still no sight of prince charming, whom I am convinced is very lost somewhere. But I'm not lonely (for most part of the time). I'm enjoying singlehood with my friends, going partying, spending more time with sister and girlfriends. Like Christine's new year resolution, it's time to be 'happily single'. Chasing our dreams give us a high, more than chasing after a worthless man.
Regretfully, I did not make major breakthrough. Still very far from hitting my mark, because I did not treat my future seriously. Alot of distractions, disappointment and unhappiness, but those are not excuses. Dreams not fulfilled, will just remains as dreams. And time is running out. I'm already going to be 23 this year. Ill-equipped with just a diploma, I know my future is doomed if I don't get a degree, or make it big in Amway. I admit that I've been in my comfort zone, afraid of doing new things, taking up new responsibilities. I still complain alot, and my mood swings alot, and my consistency is way off mark. I would like to think my dreams are specific. but honestly there're not. Neither are my plans.
So the new year resolution is to face my challenges and overcome my fears. Be it in Hana, work, among my friends, money, love or family. It's enough of knowing what needs to be done but not doing it. I want to achieve my goals this year. I want to make it this year and I know I will.
Sunday, December 30, 2007
Everybody has somebody
24 hours and around 65 minutes to the end of 2007. Who will you be spending the last day of 2007 with?
Many said that 2007 was a great year. Economy's doing well, people getting fatter bonus, people getting married, getting pregnant & giving birth. Quite a number of my peers either graduated, furthered their studies, start their own business. People around me getting together, breaking up, patching up and finding their significant half.
Status Quo: I'm busy trying to build up a business of my own, working myself up the corporate ladder, trying my best to make time for friends and family. And I'm terribly single.
yah yah yah. I have at least another 5 very hot, smart, good looking girlfriends who are terribly single. yes singlehood rocks because we have the freedom and whatnots. But we really just want someone special to spend special occasion with, if you know what I mean.
Back to the topic of a new year beckoning. I am really looking forward to it, because of all the new beginnings it represents. To start the slate clean.
1) Hana: New place, new projects, new classes, more people
2) Work: Overseas please!!!
3) $: More money, big money
4) Family: Sister coming back! Family trip!!!
5) Friends: I have many. Too many to name out. Haha. But it'll be great if I can fulfill my Oz road trip and TW/HK/Japan/Korea shopping trip with 4FG babes. More overseas trips!!!
6) Health: Lose weight, healthier
7) Love: Luckier in love.
I have written this incredibly long wish list for 2008. But top on my list, is not to make mistakes or do the same wrong things i did in 2007. For all the things I fear in 2007, I hope to not fear anymore and face challenges bravely.
May everyone be blessed with an even better year ahead!
Many said that 2007 was a great year. Economy's doing well, people getting fatter bonus, people getting married, getting pregnant & giving birth. Quite a number of my peers either graduated, furthered their studies, start their own business. People around me getting together, breaking up, patching up and finding their significant half.
Status Quo: I'm busy trying to build up a business of my own, working myself up the corporate ladder, trying my best to make time for friends and family. And I'm terribly single.
yah yah yah. I have at least another 5 very hot, smart, good looking girlfriends who are terribly single. yes singlehood rocks because we have the freedom and whatnots. But we really just want someone special to spend special occasion with, if you know what I mean.
Back to the topic of a new year beckoning. I am really looking forward to it, because of all the new beginnings it represents. To start the slate clean.
1) Hana: New place, new projects, new classes, more people
2) Work: Overseas please!!!
3) $: More money, big money
4) Family: Sister coming back! Family trip!!!
5) Friends: I have many. Too many to name out. Haha. But it'll be great if I can fulfill my Oz road trip and TW/HK/Japan/Korea shopping trip with 4FG babes. More overseas trips!!!
6) Health: Lose weight, healthier
7) Love: Luckier in love.
I have written this incredibly long wish list for 2008. But top on my list, is not to make mistakes or do the same wrong things i did in 2007. For all the things I fear in 2007, I hope to not fear anymore and face challenges bravely.
May everyone be blessed with an even better year ahead!
Friday, December 28, 2007
Horoscope
豬
去年犯太歲，所以你在鼠年的上半年，仍然會受到厄運的衝擊，處事必需要堅持、忍耐和鎮定，以靜制動，直至立秋以後，運程才會明顯回順。整體來 說，你的事業和愛情都有中上之勢，宜加一點自己的努力，將運程進一步推高，就是正確的態度。雖然健康運欠佳，但只要懂得保持充足睡眠，有時間做些紓緩減壓 運動，避免進食不潔的食物，便可以將染病機會減至最低了。
狗
整體來說，由於狗人在鼠年得到一級吉星坐命，故此你的運勢明顯有進步，但人生有得必有失，你在事業上的順利，是需要付出代價的。代價是什麼？就是在很多 時候，你都要工作至深夜時份，偶然想到自己經常要一個人孤獨奮鬥時，又會懷疑自己的付出是否值得。不過，這都是剎那間的自怨自艾，當寂寞的心情消失之後， 你又會重新全情投入工作，爭取佳績。
猴
猴人進入鼠年，必須要規行步矩，不可行差踏錯，處事不可輕率或馬虎了事，免讓別人有機可乘，皆因今年小人當道，出現在你命宮的幾乎全是心術不正的是非小人， 目的只是要你受到批評，受到苛責。面對這些損人不利己的人物，猴人更加要小心，因為他們的目的不是尋求利益，而是要傷害別人，所以極難對付。不過，猴人天 性聰敏，話頭醒尾，懂得圓滑處世，曉得以適當態度應付不同人物，因此雖然有點吃力，但基本上都能夠為自己搭建不敗的平台。
馬
今年屬馬的朋友正沖太歲，所謂「太歲當頭坐，無喜必有禍」，所以你在鼠年的一整年裏，凡事必須要步步為營，三思而行，以防遭到不測之災。假如流年家中或自己有喜事，則可以為你擋去一些災煞，但處事仍不可掉以輕心。由於流年子丑相合，你不妨多跟屬牛的朋友相聚，希望沾一點他們的好運氣，為自己化解霉運。總而言之，在鼠年中，你若能緊守「少說話，多做事」的原則，加上事事小心，自然可以無災無厄，順利過渡。
鼠
屬鼠的朋友在本命年的運程吉凶參半。既得貴人、財星助力，也有凶煞較強的凶星入命，在不同方面騷擾你。整體來說，你的事業和財運大致良好，但愛情和健康則稍欠理想；因此，今年必須注意自己的做人和處事態度，將愛理不理的性格改掉，盡量在多方面表現出積極 的態度，有助愛侶對你改觀。另一方面，今年你的工作量甚大，容易工作超時，影響三餐及休息時間，以致抵抗力變差。必須緊記「平安是福」，錢財只是身外物而 已！
虎
整體來說，屬虎的人，今年的運程半吉半凶，既沒有吉星助運，也沒有凶星擾命，凡事都只能靠自己，所以會份外辛勞。流年的「驛馬」星是一顆不錯的星宿，雖然不 能為你消災解煞，也不能為你提升高運氣，但祂的遷移特徵，令你愈動愈有利，愈走遠愈能生財。虎人若能把握「驛馬」為你帶來的機遇，將可以做出一番不的成 績。
兔
你在鼠年的運程尚算順利，除了健康比較差、財運有點回軟之外，基本上都有不錯的表現；尤其愛情方面，今年更是如沐春風之年頭。不過，由於今年特別多官非星纏擾著你，故此你必須要緊記做事光明磊落，不走偏門，不行歪道，才可以明哲保身，專心發展事業和愛情。
牛
今年你的運勢幾乎是所有生肖之冠，正是求謀順利，銳不可擋，事業旗開得勝，財運亨通暢順，健康精神百倍，各方面都是一帆風順，儘管愛情有點輕微阻滯，但還是 不錯的。不過，做人切記「居安思危」，順利時要盡力求成之餘，也要為蹇運時做好準備，才是讓自己立於不敗之地的不二法門
羊
對於羊人來說，這個鼠年可說是轉運年，事事得心應手，路路亨通，各方面都有上佳的表現，很值得高興。不過，鼠年過後，踏入牛年，丑未相沖，羊人正沖太歲，運程十分動盪，不可奢求有突破機會，也不易有貴人扶持。因此，你必須要未雨綢繆，在鼠年這個得運年盡量爭取好成績，為來年的相沖年做好不時的準備，讓自己在動盪的時刻也能立於不敗之地。
雞
肖雞的朋友在鼠年是破犯太歲，易有失言之事，所以今年那顆「卷舌」星會特別活躍，時刻都會引誘你犯錯，以致你在公司裏或朋友之間，容易與人發生爭執，擾亂周圍的和諧氣氛。不過，由於今年你的命宮裏吉星眾多，既能為你添福添祿添喜慶，也能為你消解是非禍患，因此你的運程可說是十分平穩。此外，你應該要緊記「有日思無日」的格言，得意時應記失意時的日子，而且要懂得積穀防饑，以備不時之需。
蛇
雖然流年中，你的事業上出現了眾多不利因素，但幸好肖蛇的你做事有計劃，有目標，尤其在事業方面，做好抉擇後，你就會一心一意、勇往直前，而這種不屈不撓的上進心，配合「月德」貴人的扶持，正好助你大大抵銷了今年的厄運蹇途。
龍
龍人在鼠年中，得「三台」、「金輿」並臨，意味財喜臨門、成就卓越，本應有很好的發展，但由於你又遭到眾凶星包圍，令你在各方面仍然面對重重難關，因此，你必須要付出雙倍的努力，戰勝凶星招來的意外和障礙，才能享受吉神帶給你富貴與財富。由於你的鬥心很強，兼且有無窮的精力，故此你的成功機會很大。只要你不計較辛苦勞碌，你將可以度過一個很不錯的鼠年。
去年犯太歲，所以你在鼠年的上半年，仍然會受到厄運的衝擊，處事必需要堅持、忍耐和鎮定，以靜制動，直至立秋以後，運程才會明顯回順。整體來 說，你的事業和愛情都有中上之勢，宜加一點自己的努力，將運程進一步推高，就是正確的態度。雖然健康運欠佳，但只要懂得保持充足睡眠，有時間做些紓緩減壓 運動，避免進食不潔的食物，便可以將染病機會減至最低了。
狗
整體來說，由於狗人在鼠年得到一級吉星坐命，故此你的運勢明顯有進步，但人生有得必有失，你在事業上的順利，是需要付出代價的。代價是什麼？就是在很多 時候，你都要工作至深夜時份，偶然想到自己經常要一個人孤獨奮鬥時，又會懷疑自己的付出是否值得。不過，這都是剎那間的自怨自艾，當寂寞的心情消失之後， 你又會重新全情投入工作，爭取佳績。
猴
猴人進入鼠年，必須要規行步矩，不可行差踏錯，處事不可輕率或馬虎了事，免讓別人有機可乘，皆因今年小人當道，出現在你命宮的幾乎全是心術不正的是非小人， 目的只是要你受到批評，受到苛責。面對這些損人不利己的人物，猴人更加要小心，因為他們的目的不是尋求利益，而是要傷害別人，所以極難對付。不過，猴人天 性聰敏，話頭醒尾，懂得圓滑處世，曉得以適當態度應付不同人物，因此雖然有點吃力，但基本上都能夠為自己搭建不敗的平台。
馬
今年屬馬的朋友正沖太歲，所謂「太歲當頭坐，無喜必有禍」，所以你在鼠年的一整年裏，凡事必須要步步為營，三思而行，以防遭到不測之災。假如流年家中或自己有喜事，則可以為你擋去一些災煞，但處事仍不可掉以輕心。由於流年子丑相合，你不妨多跟屬牛的朋友相聚，希望沾一點他們的好運氣，為自己化解霉運。總而言之，在鼠年中，你若能緊守「少說話，多做事」的原則，加上事事小心，自然可以無災無厄，順利過渡。
鼠
屬鼠的朋友在本命年的運程吉凶參半。既得貴人、財星助力，也有凶煞較強的凶星入命，在不同方面騷擾你。整體來說，你的事業和財運大致良好，但愛情和健康則稍欠理想；因此，今年必須注意自己的做人和處事態度，將愛理不理的性格改掉，盡量在多方面表現出積極 的態度，有助愛侶對你改觀。另一方面，今年你的工作量甚大，容易工作超時，影響三餐及休息時間，以致抵抗力變差。必須緊記「平安是福」，錢財只是身外物而 已！
虎
整體來說，屬虎的人，今年的運程半吉半凶，既沒有吉星助運，也沒有凶星擾命，凡事都只能靠自己，所以會份外辛勞。流年的「驛馬」星是一顆不錯的星宿，雖然不 能為你消災解煞，也不能為你提升高運氣，但祂的遷移特徵，令你愈動愈有利，愈走遠愈能生財。虎人若能把握「驛馬」為你帶來的機遇，將可以做出一番不的成 績。
兔
你在鼠年的運程尚算順利，除了健康比較差、財運有點回軟之外，基本上都有不錯的表現；尤其愛情方面，今年更是如沐春風之年頭。不過，由於今年特別多官非星纏擾著你，故此你必須要緊記做事光明磊落，不走偏門，不行歪道，才可以明哲保身，專心發展事業和愛情。
牛
今年你的運勢幾乎是所有生肖之冠，正是求謀順利，銳不可擋，事業旗開得勝，財運亨通暢順，健康精神百倍，各方面都是一帆風順，儘管愛情有點輕微阻滯，但還是 不錯的。不過，做人切記「居安思危」，順利時要盡力求成之餘，也要為蹇運時做好準備，才是讓自己立於不敗之地的不二法門
羊
對於羊人來說，這個鼠年可說是轉運年，事事得心應手，路路亨通，各方面都有上佳的表現，很值得高興。不過，鼠年過後，踏入牛年，丑未相沖，羊人正沖太歲，運程十分動盪，不可奢求有突破機會，也不易有貴人扶持。因此，你必須要未雨綢繆，在鼠年這個得運年盡量爭取好成績，為來年的相沖年做好不時的準備，讓自己在動盪的時刻也能立於不敗之地。
雞
肖雞的朋友在鼠年是破犯太歲，易有失言之事，所以今年那顆「卷舌」星會特別活躍，時刻都會引誘你犯錯，以致你在公司裏或朋友之間，容易與人發生爭執，擾亂周圍的和諧氣氛。不過，由於今年你的命宮裏吉星眾多，既能為你添福添祿添喜慶，也能為你消解是非禍患，因此你的運程可說是十分平穩。此外，你應該要緊記「有日思無日」的格言，得意時應記失意時的日子，而且要懂得積穀防饑，以備不時之需。
蛇
雖然流年中，你的事業上出現了眾多不利因素，但幸好肖蛇的你做事有計劃，有目標，尤其在事業方面，做好抉擇後，你就會一心一意、勇往直前，而這種不屈不撓的上進心，配合「月德」貴人的扶持，正好助你大大抵銷了今年的厄運蹇途。
龍
龍人在鼠年中，得「三台」、「金輿」並臨，意味財喜臨門、成就卓越，本應有很好的發展，但由於你又遭到眾凶星包圍，令你在各方面仍然面對重重難關，因此，你必須要付出雙倍的努力，戰勝凶星招來的意外和障礙，才能享受吉神帶給你富貴與財富。由於你的鬥心很強，兼且有無窮的精力，故此你的成功機會很大。只要你不計較辛苦勞碌，你將可以度過一個很不錯的鼠年。
Wake up Leya
Wake up and smell the roses. Open your eyes and see clearly what needs to be done.
Somethings are never worth pursuing. Not by you anyway.
Just focus on the things you should be doing now and I bet you will feel more fulfilling and empowered than before.
Wake up from those unrealistic scenerios that you can't do anything about. Stop playing mind games with yourself. Stop trying to read and guess others' motives. Just be happy
Here's Leya talking to Leya >.<
Somethings are never worth pursuing. Not by you anyway.
Just focus on the things you should be doing now and I bet you will feel more fulfilling and empowered than before.
Wake up from those unrealistic scenerios that you can't do anything about. Stop playing mind games with yourself. Stop trying to read and guess others' motives. Just be happy
Here's Leya talking to Leya >.<
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Pursuit of Happyness
A story of tenacity.
If we never last through hardships, we never deserve anything.
If something comes so easily, we wouldn't know how to appreciate it.
If we give up now, we are nothing.
We don't need to know how electricity works, as long as we know what is electricity and what it can do.
We don't need to know how to attain our goals, we just need to know to know specifically what they are. The remaining pieces of the puzzle will fall in place automatically.
Have faith (:
If we never last through hardships, we never deserve anything.
If something comes so easily, we wouldn't know how to appreciate it.
If we give up now, we are nothing.
We don't need to know how electricity works, as long as we know what is electricity and what it can do.
We don't need to know how to attain our goals, we just need to know to know specifically what they are. The remaining pieces of the puzzle will fall in place automatically.
Have faith (:
Yuletide
Merry Christmas to all my friends, family and dearies! Tis the season to be jolly, lala-lala-la la-la-la-la.
This Xmas would be so much better if my sister is around. Nonetheless it was a cosy quiet christmas spent with v. impt people like my family and friends.
Now I wonder what I'm going to do about New Year Eve...
*p.s. matters of the heart are better left unopened, unexplored.
Sunday, December 23, 2007
Your wish is my command
Xmas is around the corner. and tis the season for wishes and presents. If the universe is answering to our wishes, what will you wish for?
All I really want:
1) go on a trip with my family to Korea, Japan, HK, Australia
2) A prince charming, complete with white horse, good looks and height (do they sell those in stores?)
3) travel overseas to work, build contacts for future Hana
4) a proper credit card where I meet the minimum salary limit, meaning an increment
5) A new wardrobe
Anyway my new toy rox. But can't blog
And the soft launch was relatively successful. awesome fashion show!
All I really want:
1) go on a trip with my family to Korea, Japan, HK, Australia
2) A prince charming, complete with white horse, good looks and height (do they sell those in stores?)
3) travel overseas to work, build contacts for future Hana
4) a proper credit card where I meet the minimum salary limit, meaning an increment
5) A new wardrobe
Anyway my new toy rox. But can't blog
And the soft launch was relatively successful. awesome fashion show!
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Monday, December 17, 2007
Anger Transfusion
Have you ever subject another person to your mood swings, just because something / someone else has pissed you off?
I do tt. Pretty often to people who cares for me. They never do anything wrong, they were just there at the wrong time and the wrong place.
I'm tired of living so angrily. I just want a break from all the stress from everywhere.
I want to buy my ipod touch even though i am going to be broke after buying it.
I do tt. Pretty often to people who cares for me. They never do anything wrong, they were just there at the wrong time and the wrong place.
I'm tired of living so angrily. I just want a break from all the stress from everywhere.
I want to buy my ipod touch even though i am going to be broke after buying it.
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Spring Cleaning
A day at home. And I got busy with household chores and being a gd daughter and sister. my room now looks spectacularly clean and clear. so much so I am not quite used to it.
Something I tried after reading Serene's blog - a ColorGenics test- http://www.goldinuniverse.com/:
You feel as if you have missed out on a great deal that life had to offer and you go about trying to make up for past failures. Naturally at times you get depressed and you try to compensate for your 'missed opportunities' by living your life to the full. This is what, perhaps, may be described as 'living with exaggerated intensity'. In this way you feel you can break the chains of the past and start again - and it could be that you are right.
You are looking for something different. Your imagination has been working overtime and you are seeking adventure - and you'd like to share that adventure, the new experience, with someone like yourself: Imaginative, Enthusiastic and Sensitive.
It is amazing that you yourself believe that old 'adage' that you are a misunderstood person - and you feel that because of this you are being left out in the cold. It is because of this lack of believed understanding that you feel the need to conform to society in general - but this situation leaves you 'cold' knowing that you are not appreciated for your true self. Any relationship that you are developing at this time does not seem to involve any true emotional commitment, you seem to be just playing along.
You are holding back. You need to find friends in whom you can trust and once they have proved themselves beyond all possible doubt you will be prepared to give them your all. The existing situation is not of your liking - you have an unsatisfied need for mental stimulation with others whose standards are as high as your own. Trying to control your instincts the way you do restricts your ability to open up to others and the way you feel at this time is suggestive of 'total surrender'. This is not to your liking as you consider such thoughts as weaknesses that need to be overcome. You feel that only by control, controlling your innermost thoughts, are you able to maintain your air of superiority. You want to be admired for yourself alone and not for what you can do or for what you may have done. In essence 'you need to be needed' and at the same time 'you need to need'.
You really like doing what you do and, more than that, you like yourself. Your attitude to work and to life is that 'If its not fun - then don't do it'. You want to be liked and respected, not for who you are but for what you are - and it seems to be working.
_____
Not all the above is true. But this is how I'm feeling. I'm really trying my best here. At work, at Hana, at home, among my friends. But am I being myself? I don't know. Trying to be a better person. But happier person or not I dunno. I conform, I keep it safe, I play it safe. I be obedient. I listen. But when does the "me" lies among all the "I"s?
I'm not confused, or lost. I just feel a tinge of restlessness, a tinge of loneliness, a tinge of 'hard work don't seem to pay off", "i feel like total chopped liver" and "why the hell am i working so hard?"
I want so much more for Christmas, Santa. Do you hear me?
Something I tried after reading Serene's blog - a ColorGenics test- http://www.goldinuniverse.com/:
You feel as if you have missed out on a great deal that life had to offer and you go about trying to make up for past failures. Naturally at times you get depressed and you try to compensate for your 'missed opportunities' by living your life to the full. This is what, perhaps, may be described as 'living with exaggerated intensity'. In this way you feel you can break the chains of the past and start again - and it could be that you are right.
You are looking for something different. Your imagination has been working overtime and you are seeking adventure - and you'd like to share that adventure, the new experience, with someone like yourself: Imaginative, Enthusiastic and Sensitive.
It is amazing that you yourself believe that old 'adage' that you are a misunderstood person - and you feel that because of this you are being left out in the cold. It is because of this lack of believed understanding that you feel the need to conform to society in general - but this situation leaves you 'cold' knowing that you are not appreciated for your true self. Any relationship that you are developing at this time does not seem to involve any true emotional commitment, you seem to be just playing along.
You are holding back. You need to find friends in whom you can trust and once they have proved themselves beyond all possible doubt you will be prepared to give them your all. The existing situation is not of your liking - you have an unsatisfied need for mental stimulation with others whose standards are as high as your own. Trying to control your instincts the way you do restricts your ability to open up to others and the way you feel at this time is suggestive of 'total surrender'. This is not to your liking as you consider such thoughts as weaknesses that need to be overcome. You feel that only by control, controlling your innermost thoughts, are you able to maintain your air of superiority. You want to be admired for yourself alone and not for what you can do or for what you may have done. In essence 'you need to be needed' and at the same time 'you need to need'.
You really like doing what you do and, more than that, you like yourself. Your attitude to work and to life is that 'If its not fun - then don't do it'. You want to be liked and respected, not for who you are but for what you are - and it seems to be working.
_____
Not all the above is true. But this is how I'm feeling. I'm really trying my best here. At work, at Hana, at home, among my friends. But am I being myself? I don't know. Trying to be a better person. But happier person or not I dunno. I conform, I keep it safe, I play it safe. I be obedient. I listen. But when does the "me" lies among all the "I"s?
I'm not confused, or lost. I just feel a tinge of restlessness, a tinge of loneliness, a tinge of 'hard work don't seem to pay off", "i feel like total chopped liver" and "why the hell am i working so hard?"
I want so much more for Christmas, Santa. Do you hear me?
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