Judging Everybody

Judge - who are we to judge anyone?

What is judging someone by its cover anyway? In my opinion, judging is define as labelling someone based a action or speech (which is not a common occurence) Names shall not be named, but there was once I hugged another guy friend infront of some friends. This guy friend not my boyfriend. He's simply huggable and we both know that hug did not mean anything more than friends (i treat this guy like my bro). But my other friends, well one of the guy gave me the look. I was uncomfortable, trying to explain myself. But then I tot to myself. I am me. I like hugs, I give friendly hugs. If I know u are not comfortable, I wont give. But otherwise I hug anyone and everyone (except most guys).

And I had this sex survey done with some friends. A friend of a friend is interviewing a sensitive topic of sex. It was quite informative and I like the lay-it-all-out-in-open kind of talk, where people shared honest opinions and views. It is confidential anyway, and although I was honestly abit caught off guard by the honesty of the answers but I did not judge. No labels were formed in my head except perhaps surprise (because I realize how little I know).

And there was another issue of a more sensitve nature. Don't know how to put it politically correctly but I got ticked off yesterday for not turning up. Was accused of pulling some stunt, which I innocently could say I did not. I'm just sick and tired of the drama and hoo-haa that I've decided to take a break until a proper decision is made and this issue is addressed. I hate the politics, i hate the misunderstanding, i hate the back stabbing, i hate the wrong image that was portrayed, i hate all this judging of people. They never did understand us. It's a relationship doomed for failure.

I rather be who I am, than to change who I am to suit everyone's palatte. I'm the in between child. To the wild ones, I'm the good girl. To the good ones, I'm the wild girl. Whatever. Judge whatever you want. I am just who I am.

*this is not to say we should stop changing for the better. Just don't change yourself because of someone says that's how you should be.

Brothers & Sisters

A typical American drama on family (albeit an American one). Calista Flockhart is in this show and I used to watch her so often on Ally McBeal. I've grown to love the series and the women in the show. Like Sally Field who plays the mother and the elder sister whose name I've forgotten. She is one strong lady who works and takes care of her own families (her own children and her siblings). I enjoy the dialogue very much, quite witty, not like the spoken english we have in Singapore. And it just seems so touching. The quality of film and choice of music works well for this show, hence touching the hearts of the audience. Alot of screwed up things happening to this family, like father's mistress, drug abuse, casual sex (which seems pretty common in the States), and hot gays kissing!.

I love these kind of All-American dramas. They cover all kind of genres, from CSI to Grey's Anatomy, Desperate Housewives to 24 Hours. And it's great Channel 5 is bringing in more and more of such dramas. Still remember those days when I used to stay up late till midnight to catch JAG, Ally Mcbeal, One Tree Hill, Gilmore girls during my sec sch days. It was not until I was in Poly, when I learn to appreciate Friends. It made me laugh even more. I could rewatch the earlier seasons and laugh at the fashion then somemore.

And who can forget the all time favourite - Sex and the city! They have a similar season coming on now too by Candance Bushnell, the same author of Sex and the City - Lipstick Jungle. Career women trapped in New York's dog eat dog world. A fashion designer, a magazine editor and a production house owner. Not as good as Sex and the City but I could empathize with the girls

So why can't Singaporeans talk witty like the Americans?

Sinful desire

Anyone wanna buy me this for birthday?

I could use this for music, TV and video on the go...

Liar Game

Highly recommended by Len. This show rocks man! the scheming cunning ugly side of mankind. The greed, the fear... I can relate. Mankind has flaws, but I believe in justice and karma.

'The only formula to win this game is to trust one another, forgo any selfishness and work as a team.' So true

I believe in Hana and the team. no looking back.

Handphone picture log

NTU Hall 9 (170807)

Loreen & Yi Ling the Greek princess

The aristocrat and his pretty princess

Sailormoon

Early morning on 180807...

Love Mystic @ Aids Campaign

New friends I made - Yaya and Sofie...

my lovely babe, Serene

Sausages, Eggs and Beer @ The Brotzeit German Bier Bar and Restaurant

the great afternoon at VivoCity ended off with this!

250807 - Before SIM-RMIT Pageant @ St James

We saw Charlotte, Chyanne's cutest bundle of joy

And it was a night of clubbing and Music at Power House (i think) and Boiler Room

270807 - the night before Cassandra's birthday, we met up at Paisley and Cream to have dinner and photo-whoring session

The wrap is super nice!

And we barely finish the bread pudding because we were too full!

@ Hip Diner last Fri, me and my Godma, Emily (this girl is a superwoman!)

And Sunday was Denzel's 1st month anniversary (he's Dion and Dorothy's newborn son. Super adorable!)
Denzel

Cute Daphne and Hui Er